
<p lang="id-ID"><span lang="en-ID">Tidak dipungkiri bahwa Nabi </span><span lang="en-ID"><i>shallallahu ‘alaihi wa sallam </i></span><span lang="en-ID">merupakan sebaik-baik teladan dalam segala hal, termasuk teladan dalam mendidik generasi muda. Salah satu yang beliau contohkan adalah mendoakan anak keturunan beliau dan anak-anak kaum muslimin selain dari garis keturunan beliau</span><span lang="en-ID"><i>. </i></span><span lang="en-ID">Berikut beberapa contoh di antaranya.</span></p>
<p lang="id-ID"><span lang="en-ID">1. Doa Nabi </span><span lang="en-ID"><i>shallallahu ‘alaihi wa sallam </i></span><span lang="en-ID">kepada cucu beliau, Al-Hasan </span><span lang="en-ID"><i>radhiyallahu ‘anhu.</i></span></p>
<p lang="id-ID"><span lang="en-ID">Diriwayatkan dari sahabat Al-Baro’ bin ‘Azhib </span><span lang="en-ID"><i>radhiyallahu ‘anhu, </i></span><span lang="en-ID">beliau berkata,</span></p>
<p lang="id-ID" align="center"><span lang="ar-SA">رَأَيْتُ الْحَسَنَ بْنَ عَلِىٍّ عَلَى عَاتِقِ النَّبِىِّ </span><span lang="en-ID">–</span><span lang="ar-SA">صلى</span> الله عليه وسلم<span lang="en-ID">– </span><span lang="ar-SA">وَهُوَ</span> يَقُولُ <span style="text-decoration: underline;">اللَّهُمَّ إِنِّى أُحِبُّهُ فَأَحِبَّهُ</span></p>
<p lang="id-ID"><span style="color: #000000;">“</span><span style="color: #000000;"><span lang="en-ID">Aku (Al-Baro’) melihat Al-Hasan bin ‘Ali digendong di bahu Nabi </span></span><span style="color: #000000;"><span lang="en-ID"><i>shallallahu ‘alaihi wa sallam.</i></span></span><span style="color: #000000;"><span lang="en-ID"> Ketika itu Nabi </span></span><span style="color: #000000;"><span lang="en-ID"><i>shallallahu ‘alaihi wa sallam</i></span></span><span style="color: #000000;"><span lang="en-ID"> mengucapkan, “</span></span><span style="color: #000000;"><span lang="en-ID"><i><b>Ya Allah, sesungguhnya aku mencintainya (Al-Hasan), maka cintailah dia.</b></i></span></span><span style="color: #000000;"><span lang="en-ID">” (HR. Bukhari no. 3749 dan Muslim no. 2422).</span></span></p>
<p lang="id-ID"><span lang="en-ID">2. Doa Nabi </span><span lang="en-ID"><i>shallallahu ‘alaihi wa sallam </i></span><span lang="en-ID">kepada cucu beliau</span><span lang="en-US">,</span><span lang="en-ID"> Al-Hasan dan Usamah bin Zaid </span><span lang="en-ID"><i>radhiyallahu ‘anhum.</i></span></p>
<p lang="id-ID"><span lang="en-ID">Diriwayatkan dari Usamah bin Zaid </span><span lang="en-ID"><i>radhiyallahu ‘anhuma</i></span><span lang="en-US">,</span> <span lang="en-US">beliau </span><span lang="en-ID">berkata,</span></p>
<p lang="id-ID" align="center"><span lang="ar-SA">أَنَّ رَسُولَ اللهِ صلى الله عليه وسلم ، كَانَ يَأْخُذْهُ وَالْحَسَنَ ، فَيَقُولُ </span><span lang="en-ID">: </span><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><span lang="ar-SA">اللَّهُمَّ إِنِّي أُحِبُّهُمَا فَأَحِبَّهُمَا</span></span></p>
<p lang="id-ID"><span style="color: #000000;">“</span><span style="color: #000000;"><span lang="en-ID">Sesungguhnya Rasulullah </span></span><span style="color: #000000;"><span lang="en-ID"><i>shallallahu ‘alaihi wa sallam </i></span></span><span style="color: #000000;"><span lang="en-ID">dahulu memeluknya (Usamah) dan Al-Hasan. Kemudian beliau </span></span><span style="color: #000000;"><span lang="en-ID"><i>shallallahu ‘alaihi wa sallam </i></span></span><span style="color: #000000;"><span lang="en-ID">berucap, “</span></span><span style="color: #000000;"><span lang="en-ID"><i><b>Ya Allah, sesungguhnya aku mencintai mereka berdua, maka cintailah keduanya.</b></i></span></span><span style="color: #000000;"><span lang="en-ID">” (HR. Bukhari no. 3747 dan Muslim no. 3735)</span></span></p>
<p lang="id-ID"><span lang="en-ID">Nabi </span><span lang="en-ID"><i>shallallahu ‘alaihi wa sallam </i></span><span lang="en-ID">pun dalam kesempatan lain pernah mendo</span><span lang="en-US">a</span><span lang="en-ID">akan Usamah bin Zaid </span><span lang="en-US"><i>ra</i></span><span lang="en-ID"><i>dhiyallahu ‘anhuma</i></span><span lang="en-ID">. Beliau</span><span lang="en-US"> ra</span><span lang="en-ID"><i>dhiyallahu ‘anhu </i></span><span lang="en-ID">berkata,</span></p>
<p dir="rtl" lang="id-ID" align="center"><span lang="ar-SA">لَمَّا ثَقُلَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ هَبَطْتُ وَهَبَطَ النَّاسُ مَعِي إِلَى الْمَدِينَةِ فَدَخَلْتُ عَلَى رَسُولِ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ وَقَدْ أَصْمَتَ فَلَا يَتَكَلَّمُ فَجَعَلَ يَرْفَعُ يَدَيْهِ إِلَى السَّمَاءِ ثُمَّ يَصُبُّهَا عَلَيَّ أَعْرِفُ أَنَّهُ <span style="text-decoration: underline;">يَدْعُو لِي</span></span></p>
<p lang="id-ID"><span style="color: #000000;">“</span><span style="color: #000000;"><span lang="en-ID">Ketika R</span></span><span style="color: #000000;"><span lang="en-US">a</span></span><span style="color: #000000;"><span lang="en-ID">sulullah </span></span><span style="color: #000000;"><span lang="en-US">s</span></span><span style="color: #000000;"><span lang="en-ID"><i>hallallahu ‘alaihi wa sallam </i></span></span><span style="color: #000000;"><span lang="en-ID">telah merasakan beratnya sakit beliau, aku bersama orang-orang pun ikut turun menuju Madinah. Kemudian aku</span></span> <span style="color: #000000;"><span lang="en-ID">pun menemui R</span></span><span style="color: #000000;"><span lang="en-US">a</span></span><span style="color: #000000;"><span lang="en-ID">sulullah </span></span><span style="color: #000000;"><span lang="en-US">s</span></span><span style="color: #000000;"><span lang="en-ID"><i>h</i></span></span><span style="color: #000000;"><span lang="en-US"><i>a</i></span></span><span style="color: #000000;"><span lang="en-ID"><i>llallahu ‘alaihi wa </i></span></span><span style="color: #000000;"><span lang="en-US"><i>s</i></span></span><span style="color: #000000;"><span lang="en-ID"><i>allam. </i></span></span><span style="color: #000000;"><span lang="en-ID">Beliau diam tidak bicara sedikit</span></span> <span style="color: #000000;"><span lang="en-ID">pun. Setelah itu beliau mengangkat kedua tangan</span></span><span style="color: #000000;"><span lang="en-US">n</span></span><span style="color: #000000;"><span lang="en-ID">ya ke arah langit</span></span><span style="color: #000000;"><span lang="en-US">,</span></span><span style="color: #000000;"><span lang="en-ID"> kemudian menurunkannya dengan memberikan isyarat kepadaku sehingga aku (Usamah) </span></span><span style="color: #000000;"><span lang="en-US">menge</span></span><span style="color: #000000;"><span lang="en-ID">tahu</span></span><span style="color: #000000;"><span lang="en-US">i</span></span><span style="color: #000000;"><span lang="en-ID"> bahwa beliau </span></span><span style="color: #000000;"><span lang="en-US"><i>s</i></span></span><span style="color: #000000;"><span lang="en-ID"><i>hallallahu ‘alaihi wa sallam </i></span></span><span style="color: #000000;"><span lang="en-ID"><i><b>mendoakan </b></i></span></span><span style="color: #000000;"><span lang="en-US"><i><b>(</b></i></span></span><span style="color: #000000;"><span lang="en-ID"><i><b>kebaikan</b></i></span></span><span style="color: #000000;"><span lang="en-US"><i><b>)</b></i></span></span><span style="color: #000000;"><span lang="en-ID"><i><b> untukku</b></i></span></span><span style="color: #000000;"><span lang="en-US"><i><b>.</b></i></span></span><span style="color: #000000;"><span lang="en-ID">”</span></span> <span style="color: #000000;"><span lang="en-ID">(</span></span><span lang="en-ID">HR. Ahmad no. 21803. Dinilai hasan oleh Syaikh Musthafa Al-’Adawi dan Syaikh Syu’aib Al-Arnauth </span><span lang="en-ID"><i>rahimahullah.</i></span><span lang="en-ID">)</span></p>
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<p lang="id-ID"><span lang="en-ID">Doa Nabi </span><span lang="en-ID"><i>Shallallahu ‘alaihi wa sallam </i></span><span lang="en-ID">kepada anak, menantu, cucu dan istri beliau.</span></p>
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<p lang="id-ID"><span lang="en-ID">Imam Ahmad </span><span lang="en-US"><i>ra</i></span><span lang="en-ID"><i>himahullah </i></span><span lang="en-ID">meriwayatkan dalam kitab </span><span lang="en-ID"><i>Musnad,</i></span></p>
<p dir="rtl" lang="id-ID" align="center"><span lang="ar-SA">أَنَّ أُمَّ سَلَمَةَ زَوْجَ النَّبِيِّ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ حِينَ جَاءَ نَعْيُ الْحُسَيْنِ بْنِ عَلِيٍّ لَعَنَتْ أَهْلَ الْعِرَاقِ فَقَالَتْ قَتَلُوهُ قَتَلَهُمْ اللَّهُ غَرُّوهُ وَذَلُّوهُ قَتَلَهُمْ اللَّهُ لَعَنَهُمْ اللهُ</span><span lang="en-ID">. </span><span lang="ar-SA">فَإِنِّي</span> رَأَيْتُ رَسُولَ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ جَاءَتْهُ فَاطِمَةُ غَدِيَّةً بِبُرْمَةٍ قَدْ صَنَعَتْ لَهُ فِيهَا عَصِيدَةً تَحْمِلُهُ فِي طَبَقٍ لَهَا حَتَّى وَضَعَتْهَا بَيْنَ يَدَيْهِ فَقَالَ لَهَا أَيْنَ ابْنُ عَمِّكِ قَالَتْ هُوَ فِي الْبَيْتِ قَالَ فَاذْهَبِي فَادْعِيهِ وَائْتِنِي بِابْنَيْهِ قَالَتْ فَجَاءَتْ تَقُودُ ابْنَيْهَا كُلُّ وَاحِدٍ مِنْهُمَا بِيَدٍ وَعَلِيٌّ يَمْشِي فِي إِثْرِهِمَا حَتَّى دَخَلُوا عَلَى رَسُولِ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ فَأَجْلَسَهُمَا فِي حِجْرِهِ وَجَلَسَ عَلِيٌّ عَنْ يَمِينِهِ وَجَلَسَتْ فَاطِمَةُ عَنْ يَسَارِهِ قَالَتْ أُمُّ سَلَمَةَ فَاجْتَبَذَ مِنْ تَحْتِي كِسَاءً خَيْبَرِيًّا كَانَ بِسَاطًا لَنَا عَلَى الْمَنَامَةِ فِي الْمَدِينَةِ فَلَفَّهُ النَّبِيُّ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ عَلَيْهِمْ جَمِيعًا فَأَخَذَ بِشِمَالِهِ طَرَفَيْ الْكِسَاءِ وَأَلْوَى بِيَدِهِ الْيُمْنَى إِلَى رَبِّهِ عَزَّ وَجَلَّ قَالَ اللَّهُمَّ أَهْلِي أَذْهِبْ عَنْهُمْ الرِّجْسَ وَطَهِّرْهُمْ تَطْهِيرًا اللَّ<span style="text-decoration: underline;">هُمَّ أَهْلُ بَيْتِي أَذْهِبْ عَنْهُمْ الرِّجْسَ وَطَهِّرْهُمْ تَطْهِيرًا اللَّهُمَّ أَهْلُ بَيْتِي أَذْهِبْ عَنْهُمْ الرِّجْسَ وَطَهِّرْهُمْ تَطْهِيرًا</span> قُلْتُ يَا رَسُولَ اللَّهِ أَلَسْتُ مِنْ أَهْلِكَ قَالَ بَلَى فَادْخُلِي فِي الْكِسَاءِ قَالَتْ فَدَخَلْتُ فِي الْكِسَاءِ بَعْدَمَا قَضَى دُعَاءَهُ لِابْنِ عَمِّهِ عَلِيٍّ وَابْنَيْهِ وَابْنَتِهِ فَاطِمَةَ رَضِيَ اللَّهُ عَنْهُمْ</p>
<p lang="id-ID"><span style="color: #000000;">“</span><span style="color: #000000;"><span lang="en-ID">Sesungguhnya Ummu Salamah, </span></span><span style="color: #000000;"><span lang="en-US">i</span></span><span style="color: #000000;"><span lang="en-ID">stri Nabi </span></span><span style="color: #000000;"><span lang="en-US"><i>s</i></span></span><span style="color: #000000;"><span lang="en-ID"><i>hallallahu ‘alaihi wa sallam</i></span></span><span style="color: #000000;"><span lang="en-US"><i>,</i></span></span><i> </i><span style="color: #000000;"><span lang="en-ID">ketika </span></span><span style="color: #000000;"><span lang="en-US">beliau mendengar </span></span><span style="color: #000000;"><span lang="en-ID">berita kematian Al</span></span><span style="color: #000000;"><span lang="en-US">–</span></span><span style="color: #000000;"><span lang="en-ID">Husain bin ‘Ali, beliau (Ummu Salamah) melaknat orang-orang Iraq, “Mereka membunuhnya (Al Husain)</span></span><span style="color: #000000;"><span lang="en-US">.</span></span> <span style="color: #000000;"><span lang="en-US">S</span></span><span style="color: #000000;"><span lang="en-ID">emoga Allah akan membunuh mereka yang telah menipu dan menghinakannya. </span></span><span style="color: #000000;"><span lang="en-US">Semoga Allah melaknat mereka. </span></span><span style="color: #000000;"><span lang="en-ID">Karena sesungguhnya aku pernah melihat R</span></span><span style="color: #000000;"><span lang="en-US">a</span></span><span style="color: #000000;"><span lang="en-ID">sulullah </span></span><span style="color: #000000;"><span lang="en-US"><i>s</i></span></span><span style="color: #000000;"><span lang="en-ID"><i>hallallahu ‘alaihi wa sallam </i></span></span><span style="color: #000000;"><span lang="en-ID">dikunjungi Fathimah pada siang hari dengan membawa panci. Dia telah membuatkan bubur manis yang terbuat dari tepung dicampur susu/madu dan minyak samin untuk beliau. Lalu ditempatkan pada baskom miliknya. Kemudian dia meletakkannya di depan beliau. </span></span></p>
<p lang="id-ID"><span style="color: #000000;"><span lang="en-ID">Beliau </span></span><span style="color: #000000;"><span lang="en-US"><i>s</i></span></span><span style="color: #000000;"><span lang="en-ID"><i>hallallahu ‘alaihi wa sallam </i></span></span><span style="color: #000000;"><span lang="en-ID">kemudian bertanya kepadanya, “Mana anak pamanmu?” Dia menjawab, “Dia sedang berada di rumah</span></span><span style="color: #000000;"><span lang="en-US">.</span></span><span style="color: #000000;"><span lang="en-ID">” Beliau berkata, “Pergilah</span></span><span style="color: #000000;"><span lang="en-US">,</span></span><span style="color: #000000;"><span lang="en-ID"> panggil dia beserta kedua anaknnya</span></span><span style="color: #000000;"><span lang="en-US">.</span></span><span style="color: #000000;"><span lang="en-ID">” Ummu Salamah mengatakan, “Dia (Ali) pun datang sambil menuntun kedua anaknya. Masing-masing anaknya memegang tangan Ali hingga mereka menemui Rosulullah </span></span><span style="color: #000000;"><span lang="en-US"><i>s</i></span></span><span style="color: #000000;"><span lang="en-ID"><i>h</i></span></span><span style="color: #000000;"><span lang="en-US"><i>a</i></span></span><span style="color: #000000;"><span lang="en-ID"><i>llallahu ‘alaihi wa </i></span></span><span style="color: #000000;"><span lang="en-US"><i>s</i></span></span><span style="color: #000000;"><span lang="en-ID"><i>allam. </i></span></span><span style="color: #000000;"><span lang="en-ID">Kemudian R</span></span><span style="color: #000000;"><span lang="en-US">a</span></span><span style="color: #000000;"><span lang="en-ID">sulullah </span></span><span style="color: #000000;"><span lang="en-US"><i>s</i></span></span><span style="color: #000000;"><span lang="en-ID"><i>hallallahu ‘alaihi wa sallam </i></span></span><span style="color: #000000;"><span lang="en-ID">mendudukkan keduanya di paha beliau. Sedangkan Ali duduk di seb</span></span><span style="color: #000000;"><span lang="en-US">e</span></span><span style="color: #000000;"><span lang="en-ID">lah kanan beliau dan Fathimah duduk di sebelah kiri beliau. </span></span></p>
<p lang="id-ID"><span style="color: #000000;"><span lang="en-ID">Ummu Salamah berkata, “Kemudian beliau menarik kain yang berada di bawahku</span></span><span style="color: #000000;"><span lang="en-US">.</span></span> <span style="color: #000000;"><span lang="en-US">K</span></span><span style="color: #000000;"><span lang="en-ID">ain tersebut merupakan alas tempat tidur kami di Madinah. Lalu Nabi </span></span><span style="color: #000000;"><span lang="en-US"><i>s</i></span></span><span style="color: #000000;"><span lang="en-ID"><i>hallallahu ‘alaihi wa sallam </i></span></span><span style="color: #000000;"><span lang="en-ID">menutupkan kain tersebut kepada mereka semua. Beliau mengambil kedua ujungnya dengan tangan kiri beliau dan menengadahkan tangan kanannya kepada R</span></span><span style="color: #000000;"><span lang="en-US">a</span></span><span style="color: #000000;"><span lang="en-ID">bbnya </span></span><span style="color: #000000;"><span lang="en-ID"><i>‘Azza wa Jalla</i></span></span><span style="color: #000000;"><span lang="en-US"><i>.</i></span></span><i> </i><span style="color: #000000;"><span lang="en-US">B</span></span><span style="color: #000000;"><span lang="en-ID">eliau </span></span><span style="color: #000000;"><span lang="en-US">pun </span></span><span style="color: #000000;"><span lang="en-ID">berucap, “</span></span><span style="color: #000000;"><span lang="en-ID"><i><b>Ya Allah</b></i></span></span><span style="color: #000000;"><span lang="en-US"><i><b>,</b></i></span></span><span style="color: #000000;"><span lang="en-ID"><i><b> ini adalah keluargaku, hilangkanlah kotoran dari diri mereka dan sucikanlah mereka sesuci-sucinya</b></i></span></span><span style="color: #000000;"><span lang="en-US"><i><b>. </b></i></span></span><span style="color: #000000;"><span lang="en-ID"><i><b>Ya Allah</b></i></span></span><span style="color: #000000;"><span lang="en-US"><i><b>,</b></i></span></span><span style="color: #000000;"><span lang="en-ID"><i><b> ini adalah keluargaku, hilangkanlah kotoran dari diri mereka dan sucikanlah mereka sesuci-sucinya</b></i></span></span><span style="color: #000000;"><span lang="en-ID">. </span></span><span style="color: #000000;"><span lang="en-ID"><i><b>Ya Allah</b></i></span></span><span style="color: #000000;"><span lang="en-US"><i><b>,</b></i></span></span><span style="color: #000000;"><span lang="en-ID"><i><b> ini adalah keluargaku, hilangkanlah kotoran dari diri mereka dan sucikanlah mereka sesuci-sucinya</b></i></span></span><span style="color: #000000;"><span lang="en-US"><i><b>.</b></i></span></span><span style="color: #000000;"><span lang="en-ID">” </span></span></p>
<p lang="id-ID"><span style="color: #000000;"><span lang="en-ID">Aku (Ummu Salamah) berkata, “Bukankah aku juga termasuk keluargamu?” Kemudian beliau </span></span><span style="color: #000000;"><span lang="en-US"><i>s</i></span></span><span style="color: #000000;"><span lang="en-ID"><i>hallallahu ‘alaihi wa sallam </i></span></span><span style="color: #000000;"><span lang="en-ID">mengatakan, “Tentu, maka masuklah ke kain ini</span></span><span style="color: #000000;"><span lang="en-US">.</span></span><span style="color: #000000;"><span lang="en-ID">” Aku (Ummu Salamah) pun masuk ke kain </span></span><span style="color: #000000;"><span lang="en-US">tersebut </span></span><span style="color: #000000;"><span lang="en-ID">setelah beliau berdoa untuk kedua anak pamannya Ali, anaknya </span></span><span style="color: #000000;"><span lang="en-US">A</span></span><span style="color: #000000;"><span lang="en-ID">li dan anak beliau </span></span><span style="color: #000000;"><span lang="en-US">sendiri, (yaitu) </span></span><span style="color: #000000;"><span lang="en-ID">Fathimah </span></span><span style="color: #000000;"><span lang="en-US"><i>ra</i></span></span><span style="color: #000000;"><span lang="en-ID"><i>dhiyallahu ‘anhum</i></span></span><span style="color: #000000;"><span lang="en-US"><i>.</i></span></span><span style="color: #000000;"><span lang="en-ID"><i>”</i></span></span><span style="color: #000000;"><span lang="en-US"> (HR. Ahmad no. 26550. Hadits ini dikenal dengan hadits Kisaa’).</span></span></p>
<p lang="id-ID"><span lang="en-ID">4. Doa beliau kepada ‘Abdullah bin Ja’far </span><span lang="en-US"><i>ra</i></span><span lang="en-ID"><i>dhiyallahu ‘anhuma.</i></span></p>
<p lang="id-ID"><span lang="en-ID">Imam Ahmad </span><span lang="en-US"><i>ra</i></span><span lang="en-ID"><i>himahullah </i></span><span lang="en-US">juga </span><span lang="en-ID">meriwayatkan dalam kitab </span><span lang="en-ID"><i>Musnad</i></span><span lang="en-ID"> dari ‘Abullah bin Ja’far </span><span lang="en-US"><i>ra</i></span><span lang="en-ID"><i>dhiyallahu ‘anhuma,</i></span></p>
<p dir="rtl" lang="id-ID" align="center"><span lang="ar-SA">بَعَثَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ جَيْشًا اسْتَعْمَلَ عَلَيْهِمْ زَيْدَ بْنَ حَارِثَةَ وَقَالَ فَإِنْ قُتِلَ زَيْدٌ أَوْ اسْتُشْهِدَ فَأَمِيرُكُمْ جَعْفَرٌ فَإِنْ قُتِلَ أَوْ اسْتُشْهِدَ فَأَمِيرُكُمْ عَبْدُ اللَّهِ بْنُ رَوَاحَةَ</span><span lang="en-ID">. </span><span lang="ar-SA">ثُمَّ</span> أَخَذَ الرَّايَةَ جَعْفَرٌ فَقَاتَلَ حَتَّى قُتِلَ ثُمَّ أَخَذَهَا عَبْدُ اللَّهِ بْنُ رَوَاحَةَ فَقَاتَلَ حَتَّى قُتِلَ ثُمَّ أَخَذَ الرَّايَةَ خَالِدُ بْنُ الْوَلِيدِ فَفَتَحَ اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَأَتَى خَبَرُهُمْ النَّبِيَّ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ فَخَرَجَ إِلَى النَّاسِ فَحَمِدَ اللَّهَ وَأَثْنَى عَلَيْهِ وَقَالَ إِنَّ إِخْوَانَكُمْ لَقُوا الْعَدُوَّ وَإِنَّ زَيْدًا أَخَذَ الرَّايَةَ فَقَاتَلَ حَتَّى قُتِلَ أَوْ اسْتُشْهِدَ ثُمَّ أَخَذَ الرَّايَةَ بَعْدَهُ جَعْفَرُ بْنُ أَبِي طَالِبٍ فَقَاتَلَ حَتَّى قُتِلَ أَوْ اسْتُشْهِدَ ثُمَّ أَخَذَ الرَّايَةَ عَبْدُ اللَّهِ بْنُ رَوَاحَةَ فَقَاتَلَ حَتَّى قُتِلَ أَوْ اسْتُشْهِدَ ثُمَّ أَخَذَ الرَّايَةَ سَيْفٌ مِنْ سُيُوفِ اللَّهِ خَالِدُ بْنُ الْوَلِيدِ فَفَتَحَ اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ فَأَمْهَلَ ثُمَّ أَمْهَلَ آلَ جَعْفَرٍ ثَلَاثًا أَنْ يَأْتِيَهُمْ ثُمَّ أَتَاهُمْ فَقَالَ لَا تَبْكُوا عَلَى أَخِي بَعْدَ الْيَوْمِ أَوْ غَدٍ ادْعُوا لِي ابْنَيْ أَخِي قَالَ فَجِيءَ بِنَا كَأَنَّا أَفْرُخٌ فَقَالَ ادْعُوا إِلَيَّ الْحَلَّاقَ فَجِيءَ بِالْحَلَّاقِ فَحَلَقَ رُءُوسَنَا ثُمَّ قَالَ أَمَّا مُحَمَّدٌ فَشَبِيهُ عَمِّنَا أَبِي طَالِبٍ<span lang="en-ID">. </span><span lang="ar-SA">وَأَمَّا</span> عَبْدُ اللَّهِ فَشَبِيهُ خَلْقِي وَخُلُقِي ثُمَّ أَخَذَ بِيَدِي فَأَشَالَهَا فَقَالَ <span style="text-decoration: underline;">اللَّهُمَّ اخْلُفْ جَعْفَرًا فِي أَهْلِهِ وَبَارِكْ لِعَبْدِ اللَّهِ فِي صَفْقَةِ يَمِينِهِ</span> قَالَهَا ثَلَاثَ مِرَارٍ قَالَ فَجَاءَتْ أُمُّنَا فَذَكَرَتْ لَهُ يُتْمَنَا وَجَعَلَتْ تُفْرِحُ لَهُ فَقَالَ الْعَيْلَةَ تَخَافِينَ عَلَيْهِمْ وَأَنَا وَلِيُّهُمْ فِي الدُّنْيَا وَالْآخِرَةِ</p>
<p lang="id-ID"><span style="color: #000000;">“</span><span style="color: #000000;"><span lang="en-ID">R</span></span><span style="color: #000000;"><span lang="en-US">a</span></span><span style="color: #000000;"><span lang="en-ID">sulullah </span></span><span style="color: #000000;"><span lang="en-US"><i>s</i></span></span><span style="color: #000000;"><span lang="en-ID"><i>hallallahu ‘alaihi wa sallam </i></span></span><span style="color: #000000;"><span lang="en-ID">mengutus sebuah pasukan yang di</span></span> <span style="color: #000000;"><span lang="en-ID">sana ada Zaid bin Haritsah. Beliau </span></span><span style="color: #000000;"><span lang="en-US"><i>s</i></span></span><span style="color: #000000;"><span lang="en-ID"><i>hallallahu ‘alaihi wa sallam </i></span></span><span style="color: #000000;"><span lang="en-ID">berkata, “Jika Zaid terbunuh atau syahid</span></span><span style="color: #000000;"><span lang="en-US">,</span></span><span style="color: #000000;"><span lang="en-ID"> maka pemimpin kalian adalah Ja’far. Jika Ja’far terbunuh atau syahid</span></span><span style="color: #000000;"><span lang="en-US">,</span></span><span style="color: #000000;"><span lang="en-ID"> maka pemimpin kalian adalah ‘Abdullah bin Rowahah. Kemudian Ja’far mengambil bendera (mengambil alih pimpinan –pen)</span></span><span style="color: #000000;"><span lang="en-US">,</span></span><span style="color: #000000;"><span lang="en-ID"> lalu dia</span></span> <span style="color: #000000;"><span lang="en-ID">pun terbunuh. Lalu Kh</span></span><span style="color: #000000;"><span lang="en-US">a</span></span><span style="color: #000000;"><span lang="en-ID">lid bin Al</span></span><span style="color: #000000;"><span lang="en-US">–</span></span><span style="color: #000000;"><span lang="en-ID">Walid pun (mengambil alih pimpinan –pen)</span></span><span style="color: #000000;"><span lang="en-US">,</span></span><span style="color: #000000;"><span lang="en-ID"> lalu Allah pun </span></span><span style="color: #000000;"><span lang="en-US">memberikan </span></span><span style="color: #000000;"><span lang="en-ID">kemenangan melalui dirinya. </span></span></p>
<p lang="id-ID"><span style="color: #000000;"><span lang="en-ID">Kabar tentang mereka sampai kepada Nabi </span></span><span style="color: #000000;"><span lang="en-US"><i>s</i></span></span><span style="color: #000000;"><span lang="en-ID"><i>h</i></span></span><span style="color: #000000;"><span lang="en-US"><i>a</i></span></span><span style="color: #000000;"><span lang="en-ID"><i>llallahu ‘alaihi wa </i></span></span><span style="color: #000000;"><span lang="en-US"><i>s</i></span></span><span style="color: #000000;"><span lang="en-ID"><i>allam. </i></span></span><span style="color: #000000;"><span lang="en-ID">Beliau</span></span> <span style="color: #000000;"><span lang="en-ID">pun keluar bertemu dengan orang-orang. Beliau mengucapkan pujian dan sanjungan kepada Allah. Kemudian beliau berkata, “Sesungguhnya saudara-saudara kalian telah berhadapan dengan musuh. Zaid mengambil bendera (mengambil alih pimpinan –pen)</span></span><span style="color: #000000;"><span lang="en-US">,</span></span><span style="color: #000000;"><span lang="en-ID"> lalu dia</span></span> <span style="color: #000000;"><span lang="en-ID">pun berperang hingga terbunuh atau syahid. Lalu Ja’far bin Abu Tholib mengambil alih pimpinan, dia</span></span> <span style="color: #000000;"><span lang="en-ID">pun berperang hingga terbunuh atau syahid. Kemudian ‘Abdullah bin Rowahah mengambil alih pimpinan. Dia</span></span> <span style="color: #000000;"><span lang="en-ID">pun berperang hingga terbunuh atau syahid. Lalu salah satu </span></span><span style="color: #000000;"><span lang="en-US">p</span></span><span style="color: #000000;"><span lang="en-ID">edang dari pedang Allah</span></span><span style="color: #000000;"><span lang="en-US">, </span></span><span style="color: #000000;"><span lang="en-ID">Kh</span></span><span style="color: #000000;"><span lang="en-US">a</span></span><span style="color: #000000;"><span lang="en-ID">lid bin Al</span></span><span style="color: #000000;"><span lang="en-US">–</span></span><span style="color: #000000;"><span lang="en-ID">Walid</span></span><span style="color: #000000;"><span lang="en-US">,</span></span><span style="color: #000000;"><span lang="en-ID"> mengambil alih kepemimpinan. Kemudian Allah bukakan untuknya kemenangan”. </span></span></p>
<p lang="id-ID"><span style="color: #000000;"><span lang="en-ID">Beliau memberikan kelonggaran waktu untuk berkabung kepada keluarga Ja’far selama 3 hari. Setelah itu beliau</span></span> <span style="color: #000000;"><span lang="en-ID">pun menemui mereka dan ber</span></span><span style="color: #000000;"><span lang="en-US">kata</span></span><span style="color: #000000;"><span lang="en-ID">, “Janganlah kalian menangis atas saudaraku setelah hari ini. Panggil kemari anak saudaraku. Dia pun datang layaknya anak burung. Beliau </span></span><span style="color: #000000;"><span lang="en-US"><i>s</i></span></span><span style="color: #000000;"><span lang="en-ID"><i>hallallahu ‘alaihi wa sallam </i></span></span><span style="color: #000000;"><span lang="en-ID">berkata, “Bawakan kemari tukang cukur</span></span><span style="color: #000000;"><span lang="en-US">.</span></span><span style="color: #000000;"><span lang="en-ID">” Tukang cukur</span></span> <span style="color: #000000;"><span lang="en-ID">pun didatangkan</span></span><span style="color: #000000;"><span lang="en-US">,</span></span><span style="color: #000000;"><span lang="en-ID"> lalu dia pun menggundul kepala kami. Kemudian Beliau </span></span><span style="color: #000000;"><span lang="en-US"><i>s</i></span></span><span style="color: #000000;"><span lang="en-ID"><i>hallallahu ‘alaihi wa sallam </i></span></span><span style="color: #000000;"><span lang="en-ID">pun berkata, “Adapun Muhammad</span></span><span style="color: #000000;"><span lang="en-US">,</span></span><span style="color: #000000;"><span lang="en-ID"> maka dia mirip dengan paman kami Abu Th</span></span><span style="color: #000000;"><span lang="en-US">a</span></span><span style="color: #000000;"><span lang="en-ID">lib. Sedangkan ‘Abdullah bin Ja’far</span></span><span style="color: #000000;"><span lang="en-US">,</span></span><span style="color: #000000;"><span lang="en-ID"> maka dia mirip </span></span><span style="color: #000000;"><span lang="en-US">dengan </span></span><span style="color: #000000;"><span lang="en-ID">fisik dan akhlakku”. </span></span></p>
<p lang="id-ID"><span style="color: #000000;"><span lang="en-ID">Beliau memegang tanganku lalu mengangkatnya kemudian berdoa, “</span></span><span style="color: #000000;"><span lang="en-ID"><i><b>Yaa Allah</b></i></span></span><span style="color: #000000;"><span lang="en-US"><i><b>,</b></i></span></span><span style="color: #000000;"><span lang="en-ID"><i><b> gantikanlah bagi keluarga Ja’far dan berkahilah ‘Abdullah bin Ja’far dalam transaksi jual beli yang dia lakukan dengan tangannya</b></i></span></span><span style="color: #000000;"><span lang="en-US"><i><b>.</b></i></span></span><span style="color: #000000;"><span lang="en-ID">” Beliau </span></span><span style="color: #000000;"><span lang="en-US"><i>s</i></span></span><span style="color: #000000;"><span lang="en-ID"><i>hallallahu ‘alaihi wa sallam </i></span></span><span style="color: #000000;"><span lang="en-ID">mengucapkannya sebanyak 3 kali. ‘Abdullah bin Ja’far mengatakan, “Kemudian Ibunda kami</span></span> <span style="color: #000000;"><span lang="en-ID">pun datang</span></span><span style="color: #000000;"><span lang="en-US">, lalu </span></span><span style="color: #000000;"><span lang="en-ID">menyebut keyatiman kami kepada beliau</span></span><span style="color: #000000;"><span lang="en-US"> dan menyenangkan beliau</span></span><span style="color: #000000;"><span lang="en-ID">. </span></span><span style="color: #000000;"><span lang="en-US">L</span></span><span style="color: #000000;"><span lang="en-ID">alu beliau </span></span><span style="color: #000000;"><span lang="en-US"><i>s</i></span></span><span style="color: #000000;"><span lang="en-ID"><i>hallallahu ‘alaihi wa sallam </i></span></span><span style="color: #000000;"><span lang="en-ID">pun bersabda, “Apakah kemiskinan yang </span></span><span style="color: #000000;"><span lang="en-US">E</span></span><span style="color: #000000;"><span lang="en-ID">ngkau takutkan menimpa mereka</span></span><span style="color: #000000;"><span lang="en-US">,</span></span><span style="color: #000000;"><span lang="en-ID"> padahal akulah wali mereka di dunia dan di akhirat?!”</span></span><span style="color: #000000;"><span lang="en-US"> (HR. Ahmad no. 1750. Syaikh Musthafa Al-‘Adawi menyatakan bahwa sanadnya shahih).</span></span></p>
<p lang="id-ID"><span lang="en-ID">5. Lihat</span> <span lang="en-ID">pula betapa beliau sangat mudah mendoakan anak perempuan kecil.</span></p>
<p lang="id-ID"><span lang="en-ID">Ummu Kh</span><span lang="en-US">a</span><span lang="en-ID">lid binti Sa’id </span><span lang="en-US"><i>ra</i></span><span lang="en-ID"><i>dhiyallahu ‘anhuma </i></span><span lang="en-ID">mengatakan,</span></p>
<p dir="rtl" lang="id-ID" align="center"><span lang="ar-SA">أتيتُ رَسُوْلَ اللهِ </span><span lang="en-ID">–</span><span lang="ar-SA">صَلَّى</span> اللهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ<span lang="en-ID">– </span><span lang="ar-SA">مَعَ</span> أَبِيْ وَعَلَيَّ قَمِيْصِ أَصْفَرٍ ،فَقَالَ رَسُوْلُ اللهِ <span lang="en-ID">: </span><span lang="ar-SA">سَنَهْ</span> ، سَنَهْ <span lang="en-ID">– </span><span lang="ar-SA">قَالَ</span> الرَاوِيُ <span lang="en-ID">: </span><span lang="ar-SA">وَهِيَ</span> بِالحَبَشِيَةِ <span lang="en-ID">: </span><span lang="ar-SA">حَسَنَةْ</span> حَسَنَةْ <span lang="en-ID">– </span><span lang="ar-SA">قَالَتْ</span> <span lang="en-ID">: </span><span lang="ar-SA">فَذَهَبْتُ</span> أَلْعَبُ بِخَاتِمِ النُّبُوَّةِ ، فزَبَّرَنِيْ أَبِيْ فَقَالَ رَسُوْلُ اللهِ <span lang="en-ID">–</span><span lang="ar-SA">صَلَّى</span> اللهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ<span lang="en-ID">– : </span><span lang="ar-SA">دَعْهَا</span> ، ثُمَّ قَالَ رَسُوْلُ اللهِ <span lang="en-ID">–</span><span lang="ar-SA">صَلَّى</span> اللهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ<span lang="en-ID">– </span><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><span lang="ar-SA">أَبْلِي وَأَخْلِقيْ ، ثُمَّ أَبْلِيْ وَأَخْلِقِيْ ، ثُمَّ أَبْلِيْ وَأَخْلِقِيْ</span></span><span lang="en-ID">.</span></p>
<p lang="id-ID"><span style="color: #000000;">“</span><span style="color: #000000;"><span lang="en-ID"><i>Aku (Ummu Kh</i></span></span><span style="color: #000000;"><span lang="en-US"><i>a</i></span></span><span style="color: #000000;"><span lang="en-ID"><i>lid) menemui Nabi </i></span></span><span style="color: #000000;"><span lang="en-US"><i>s</i></span></span><span style="color: #000000;"><span lang="en-ID"><i>hallallahu ‘alaihi wa sallam bersama ayahku</i></span></span><span style="color: #000000;"><span lang="en-US"><i>.</i></span></span><i> </i><span style="color: #000000;"><span lang="en-US"><i>K</i></span></span><span style="color: #000000;"><span lang="en-ID"><i>etika itu aku mengenakan gamis berwarna kuning</i></span></span><span style="color: #000000;"><span lang="en-US"><i>.</i></span></span><span style="color: #000000;"><span lang="en-ID"><i>”</i></span></span><span style="color: #000000;"><span lang="en-ID"> Lalu R</span></span><span style="color: #000000;"><span lang="en-US">a</span></span><span style="color: #000000;"><span lang="en-ID">sulullah </span></span><span style="color: #000000;"><span lang="en-US"><i>s</i></span></span><span style="color: #000000;"><span lang="en-ID"><i>hallallahu ‘alaihi wa sallam </i></span></span><span style="color: #000000;"><span lang="en-ID">pun mengatakan (dalam bahas negeri Habasyah</span></span><span style="color: #000000;"><span lang="en-US"> atau </span></span><span style="color: #000000;"><span lang="en-ID">Etiopia), </span></span><span style="color: #000000;"><span lang="en-ID"><i>“Cantiknya, cantiknya</i></span></span><span style="color: #000000;"><span lang="en-US"><i>.</i></span></span><span style="color: #000000;"><span lang="en-ID"><i>”</i></span></span><i> </i><span style="color: #000000;"><span lang="en-US"><b>[1]</b></span></span><span style="color: #000000;"><span lang="en-ID"> Dia (Ummu Kh</span></span><span style="color: #000000;"><span lang="en-US">a</span></span><span style="color: #000000;"><span lang="en-ID">lid) berkata, </span></span><span style="color: #000000;"><span lang="en-ID"><i>“Kemudian aku</i></span></span><i> </i><span style="color: #000000;"><span lang="en-ID"><i>pun memainkan tanda kenabian</i></span></span><i> </i><span style="color: #000000;"><span lang="en-US"><b>[2]</b></span></span><span style="color: #000000;"><span lang="en-ID"><i> beliau </i></span></span><span style="color: #000000;"><span lang="en-US"><i>s</i></span></span><span style="color: #000000;"><span lang="en-ID"><i>hallallahu ‘alaihi wa sallam</i></span></span><span style="color: #000000;"><span lang="en-US"><i>. N</i></span></span><span style="color: #000000;"><span lang="en-ID"><i>amun ayahku melarangku dengan keras (membentakku)</i></span></span><span style="color: #000000;"><span lang="en-US"><i>.</i></span></span><span style="color: #000000;"><span lang="en-ID"><i>”</i></span></span> <span style="color: #000000;"><span lang="en-US"><b>[3] </b></span></span><span style="color: #000000;"><span lang="en-ID">Lalu R</span></span><span style="color: #000000;"><span lang="en-US">a</span></span><span style="color: #000000;"><span lang="en-ID">sulullah </span></span><span style="color: #000000;"><span lang="en-US"><i>s</i></span></span><span style="color: #000000;"><span lang="en-ID"><i>hallallahu ‘alaihi wa sallam </i></span></span><span style="color: #000000;"><span lang="en-ID">pun mengatakan, “</span></span><span style="color: #000000;"><span lang="en-ID"><i>Biarkan dia</i></span></span><span style="color: #000000;"><span lang="en-US"><i>.</i></span></span><span style="color: #000000;"><span lang="en-ID">” </span></span><span style="color: #000000;"><span lang="en-US"><b>[4] </b></span></span><span style="color: #000000;"><span lang="en-ID">Beliau </span></span><span style="color: #000000;"><span lang="en-US"><i>s</i></span></span><span style="color: #000000;"><span lang="en-ID"><i>hallallahu ‘alaihi wa sallam </i></span></span><span style="color: #000000;"><span lang="en-ID">berkata </span></span><span style="color: #000000;"><span lang="en-US">ke</span></span><span style="color: #000000;"><span lang="en-ID">padaku, “</span></span><span style="color: #000000;"><span lang="en-ID"><i><b>Semoga bajunya awet, </b></i></span></span><i><b> </b></i><span style="color: #000000;"><span lang="en-ID"><i><b>semoga bajunya awet, </b></i></span></span><i><b> </b></i><span style="color: #000000;"><span lang="en-ID"><i><b>semoga bajunya awet</b></i></span></span><span style="color: #000000;"><span lang="en-US"><i><b>. </b></i></span></span><span style="color: #000000;"><span lang="en-US"><b>[5]</b></span></span><span style="color: #000000;"><span lang="en-ID">”</span></span><span style="color: #000000;"><span lang="en-US"> (HR. Bukhari no. 5993).</span></span></p>
<p lang="id-ID"><span lang="en-ID">6. Doa Nabi </span><span lang="en-ID"><i>Shallallahu ‘alaihi wa sallam </i></span><span lang="en-ID">kepada Anas bin Malik </span><span lang="en-US"><i>ra</i></span><span lang="en-ID"><i>dhiyallahu ‘anhu.</i></span></p>
<p lang="id-ID"><span lang="en-ID">Anas bin Malik </span><span lang="en-US"><i>ra</i></span><span lang="en-ID"><i>dhiyallahu ‘anhu </i></span><span lang="en-ID">mengatakan,</span></p>
<p dir="rtl" lang="id-ID" align="center"><span lang="ar-SA">أَنّ النَّبِيَّ صلى الله عليه وسلم دَخَلَ عَلَى أُمِّ سُلَيْمٍ رَضِيَ اللَّهُ عَنْهَا ، فَأَتَتْهُ بِتَمْرٍ وَسَمْنٍ ، فَقَالَ </span><span lang="en-ID">: </span><span lang="ar-SA">أَعِيدُوا</span> سَمْنَكُمْ فِي سِقَائِهِ ، وَتَمْرَكُمْ فِي وِعَائِهِ فَإِنِّي صَائِمٌ ، ثُمَّ صَلَّى غَيْرَ المَكْتُبَةِ فِي نَاحِيَةِ بَيْتِهَا ، ثُمَّ دَعَا لَهَا وَلأَهْلِهَا ، فَقَالَتْ <span lang="en-ID">: </span><span lang="ar-SA">إِنَّ</span> لِي خُوَيْصَةً قَالَ <span lang="en-ID">: </span><span lang="ar-SA">وَمَا</span> هِيَ ؟ قَالَتْ <span lang="en-ID">: </span><span lang="ar-SA">خَادِمُكَ</span> أَنَسٌ قَالَ <span lang="en-ID">: </span><span lang="ar-SA">فَمَا</span> ذَكَرَتْ أُمُّ سُلَيْمٍ خَيْرَ آخِرَةٍ وَلا دُنْيَا إِلا دَعَا لِي بِهِ ، ثُمَّ قَالَ <span lang="en-ID">: </span><span lang="ar-SA"><span style="text-decoration: underline;">اللَّهُمَّ ارْزُقْهُ مَالا وَوَلَدًا وَبَارِكْ لَهُ فِيهِمْ</span> قَالَ </span><span lang="en-ID">: </span><span lang="ar-SA">فَأَنَا</span> مِنْ أَكْثَرِ الأَنْصَارِ مَالا وَوَلَدًا ، فَحَدَّثَتْنِي ابْنَتِي أُمَيْنَةُ أَنَّهُ قَدْ دُفِنَ مِنْ صُلْبِي بِضْعٌ وَعِشْرُونَ وَمِائَةٌ</p>
<p lang="id-ID"><span style="color: #000000;">“</span><span style="color: #000000;"><span lang="en-ID">Sesungguhnya Nabi </span></span><span style="color: #000000;"><span lang="en-US"><i>s</i></span></span><span style="color: #000000;"><span lang="en-ID"><i>hallallahu ‘alaihi wa sallam </i></span></span><span style="color: #000000;"><span lang="en-ID">menemui Ummu Sulaim </span></span><span style="color: #000000;"><span lang="en-US"><i>ra</i></span></span><span style="color: #000000;"><span lang="en-ID"><i>dhiyallahu ‘anha.</i></span></span><span style="color: #000000;"><span lang="en-ID"> Kemudian dia membawakan kurma dan samin kepada beliau. Namun beliau </span></span><span style="color: #000000;"><span lang="en-US"><i>s</i></span></span><span style="color: #000000;"><span lang="en-ID"><i>hallallahu ‘alaihi wa sallam </i></span></span><span style="color: #000000;"><span lang="en-ID">mengatakan, </span></span><span style="color: #000000;"><span lang="en-ID"><i>“Kembalikan samin kalian ke wadahnya</i></span></span><span style="color: #000000;"><span lang="en-US"><i>. D</i></span></span><span style="color: #000000;"><span lang="en-ID"><i>emikian juga kembalikan kurma kalian ke tempatnya karena aku (Nabi) sedang puasa</i></span></span><span style="color: #000000;"><span lang="en-US"><i>.</i></span></span><span style="color: #000000;"><span lang="en-ID"><i>”</i></span></span><span style="color: #000000;"><span lang="en-ID"> Kemudian beliau </span></span><span style="color: #000000;"><span lang="en-US"><i>s</i></span></span><span style="color: #000000;"><span lang="en-ID"><i>hallallahu ‘alaihi wa sallam </i></span></span><span style="color: #000000;"><span lang="en-ID">sh</span></span><span style="color: #000000;"><span lang="en-US">a</span></span><span style="color: #000000;"><span lang="en-ID">lat (bukan sh</span></span><span style="color: #000000;"><span lang="en-US">a</span></span><span style="color: #000000;"><span lang="en-ID">lat fardhu</span></span> <span lang="en-US"><b>[6]</b></span><span style="color: #000000;"><span lang="en-ID">) di salah satu bagian rumah Ummu Sulaim</span></span><span style="color: #000000;"><span lang="en-US">.</span></span> <span style="color: #000000;"><span lang="en-US">L</span></span><span style="color: #000000;"><span lang="en-ID">alu beliau berdoa untuk Ummu Sulaim dan keluarganya.</span></span></p>
<p lang="id-ID"><span style="color: #000000;"><span lang="en-ID">Lalu Ummu Sulaim berkata, </span></span><span style="color: #000000;"><span lang="en-ID"><i>“Sesungguhnya aku punya permintaan khusus</i></span></span><span style="color: #000000;"><span lang="en-US"><i>.</i></span></span><span style="color: #000000;"><span lang="en-ID"><i>”</i></span></span><span style="color: #000000;"><span lang="en-ID"> Beliau </span></span><span style="color: #000000;"><span lang="en-US"><i>s</i></span></span><span style="color: #000000;"><span lang="en-ID"><i>hallallahu ‘alaihi wa sallam </i></span></span><span style="color: #000000;"><span lang="en-ID">bertanya, </span></span><span style="color: #000000;"><span lang="en-ID"><i>“Apa itu?”</i></span></span><span style="color: #000000;"><span lang="en-ID"> Dia menjawab, </span></span><span style="color: #000000;"><span lang="en-ID"><i>“Pembantumu Anas</i></span></span><span style="color: #000000;"><span lang="en-US"><i>.</i></span></span><span style="color: #000000;"><span lang="en-ID"><i>”</i></span></span><span style="color: #000000;"><span lang="en-ID"> Ummu Sulaim tidak henti-hentinya menyebutkan berbagai kebaikan dunia dan akhirat kecuali dia meminta agar didoakan dengannya. Lalu Nabi </span></span><span style="color: #000000;"><span lang="en-US"><i>s</i></span></span><span style="color: #000000;"><span lang="en-ID"><i>hallallahu ‘alaihi wa sallam </i></span></span><span style="color: #000000;"><span lang="en-ID">mengucapkan, “</span></span><span style="color: #000000;"><span lang="en-ID"><i><b>Ya Allah</b></i></span></span><span style="color: #000000;"><span lang="en-US"><i><b>,</b></i></span></span><span style="color: #000000;"><span lang="en-ID"><i><b> berikanlah kepadanya rizkimu berupa harta dan anak-anak serta berkahilah</b></i></span></span><span style="color: #000000;"><span lang="en-ID">”. Anas mengatakan, </span></span><span style="color: #000000;"><span lang="en-ID"><i>“Sehingga aku sungguh merupakan orang Anshor yang paling banyak harta dan anaknya</i></span></span><span style="color: #000000;"><span lang="en-US"><i>.</i></span></span><span style="color: #000000;"><span lang="en-ID"><i>”</i></span></span><span style="color: #000000;"><span lang="en-ID"> Anak perempuanku</span></span><span style="color: #000000;"><span lang="en-US">,</span></span><span style="color: #000000;"><span lang="en-ID"> Umainah</span></span><span style="color: #000000;"><span lang="en-US">,</span></span><span style="color: #000000;"><span lang="en-ID"> menceritakan kepadaku, </span></span><span style="color: #000000;"><span lang="en-ID"><i>“Setelah itu dia memiliki anak dari sulbiku </i></span></span><span style="color: #000000;"><span lang="en-US"><i>(</i></span></span><span style="color: #000000;"><span lang="en-ID"><i>yang ketika kedatangan Al</i></span></span><span style="color: #000000;"><span lang="en-US"><i>–</i></span></span><span style="color: #000000;"><span lang="en-ID"><i>Hajjaj di Bashroh</i></span></span><span style="color: #000000;"><span lang="en-US"><i>)</i></span></span><span style="color: #000000;"><span lang="en-ID"><i>, telah dikuburkan sebanyak 120</i></span></span><span style="color: #000000;"><span lang="en-US"><i>–</i></span></span><span style="color: #000000;"><span lang="en-ID"><i>an orang</i></span></span><span style="color: #000000;"><span lang="en-US"><i>.</i></span></span><span style="color: #000000;"><span lang="en-ID"><i>”</i></span></span><i> </i><span style="color: #000000;"><span lang="en-US">(HR. Bukhari no. 1982)</span></span></p>
<p lang="id-ID"><span lang="en-ID">Sudah sepantasnya bagi kita yang menginginkan kebaikan pada anak keturunan kita secara khusus dan seluruh </span><span lang="en-US">(anak) </span><span lang="en-ID">kaum muslimin secara umum, untuk memperbanyak doa untuk mereka.</span></p>
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<p lang="id-ID"><span style="color: #000000;"><span lang="en-ID">Disempurnakan menjelang </span></span><span style="color: #000000;"><span lang="en-US">isya</span></span><span style="color: #000000;"><span lang="en-ID">, Rotterdam 2 </span></span><span style="color: #000000;"><span lang="en-US">Shafar </span></span><span style="color: #000000;"><span lang="en-ID">143</span></span><span style="color: #000000;"><span lang="en-US">8</span></span></p>
<p lang="en-ID"><b>Penulis: Aditya Budiman dan M. Saifudin Hakim</b></p>
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<p lang="en-ID"><b>Catatan kaki:</b></p>
<p class="sdfootnote-western" lang="id-ID"><span style="font-size: small;"><span lang="en-ID"><b>[1] </b></span></span><b> </b><span style="font-size: small;"><span lang="en-ID">Pada hadits ini terdapat faidah tentang bagaimana mengambil hati seorang anak dengan memujinya.</span></span></p>
<p class="sdfootnote-western" lang="id-ID"><span style="font-size: small;"><span lang="en-ID"><b>[2] </b></span></span><b> </b><span style="font-size: small;"><span lang="en-ID">Berupa sekerat daging berukuran sekitar sebesar telur burung dara</span></span><span style="font-size: small;"><span lang="en-US"> atau </span></span><span style="font-size: small;"><span lang="en-ID">merpati. Pada hadits ini terdapat dalil yang menunjukkan bahwa anak-anak </span></span><span style="font-size: small;"><span lang="en-US">pada </span></span><span style="font-size: small;"><span lang="en-ID">umumnya senang </span></span><span style="font-size: small;"><span lang="en-US">untuk </span></span><span style="font-size: small;"><span lang="en-ID">memainkan hal-hal yang menarik atau tidak biasa dilihatnya.</span></span></p>
<p class="sdfootnote-western" lang="id-ID"><span style="font-size: small;"><span lang="en-ID"><b>[3] </b></span></span><span style="font-size: small;"><span lang="en-ID">Pada potongan hadits ini terdapat adab seorang orang tua ketika anaknya mengganggu orang lain</span></span><span style="font-size: small;"><span lang="en-US">,</span></span><span style="font-size: small;"><span lang="en-ID"> yaitu mencegah atau melarangnya</span></span><span style="font-size: small;"><span lang="en-US">,</span></span><span style="font-size: small;"><span lang="en-ID"> bukan malah membiarkannya dengan alasan masih anak-anak. Demikian juga pada hadits ini terdapat bantahan </span></span><span style="font-size: small;"><span lang="en-US">bagi </span></span><span style="font-size: small;"><span lang="en-ID">orang yang berpendapat tidak bolehnya mengatakan </span></span><span style="font-size: small;"><span lang="en-US">“</span></span><span style="font-size: small;"><span lang="en-ID">jangan</span></span><span style="font-size: small;"><span lang="en-US">”</span></span><span style="font-size: small;"><span lang="en-ID"> atau melarang anak</span></span><span style="font-size: small;"><span lang="en-US"> (untuk melakukan sesuatu)</span></span><span style="font-size: small;"><span lang="en-ID">.</span></span></p>
<p class="sdfootnote-western" lang="id-ID"><span style="font-size: small;"><span lang="en-ID"><b>[4] </b></span></span><b> </b><span style="font-size: small;"><span lang="en-ID">Pada potongan hadits tersebut juga terdapat dalil bahwa orang lain yang sudah baligh hendaknya memaklumi tingkah pola</span></span><span style="font-size: small;"><span lang="en-US">h</span></span><span style="font-size: small;"><span lang="en-ID"> anak-anak yang cenderung ingin bermain-main.</span></span></p>
<p class="sdfootnote-western" lang="id-ID"><span style="font-size: small;"><span lang="en-ID"><b>[5] </b></span></span><b> </b><span style="font-size: small;"><span lang="en-ID">Hingga baju tersebut pun awet melebihi kadar keawetan baju lain pada umumnya (Lihat </span></span><span style="font-size: small;"><span lang="en-ID"><i>Fathul Ba</i></span></span><span style="font-size: small;"><span lang="en-US"><i>a</i></span></span><span style="font-size: small;"><span lang="en-ID"><i>ri</i></span></span><span style="font-size: small;"><span lang="en-ID">,</span></span> <span style="font-size: small;"><span lang="en-ID">XIII: 533).</span></span></p>
<p class="sdfootnote-western" lang="id-ID"><span style="font-size: small;"><span lang="en-ID"><b>[6] </b></span></span><b> </b><span style="font-size: small;"><span lang="en-ID">Sebagaimana dalam </span></span><span style="font-size: small;"><span lang="en-US">hadits </span></span><span style="font-size: small;"><span lang="en-ID">riwayat Muslim no. 660.</span></span></p>
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